Friday, April 18, 2014

DIY Coachella

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It's that time of year again, when all your hipster friends bring out their inner trust fund baby and venture to Indio, California for three days of sweat, dust, and ridiculous outfit choices.  Remember your sweet friend Sally?  Okay, maybe it was kind of strange that she didn't wear shoes to school the other day, but you're about to see a brand new side of her as she corrupts your feed with a horrific Instavideo of her dry-humping the desert floor...naked.  On the bright side, Sally just got fired and you took her job.  Why?  Because you couldn't afford to  bare all at Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival.  If you're honest with yourself, you really did want to party with the stars at the Empire Polo Club but you just couldn't justify emptying your savings account for a sunburn and a hangover.  Ever since Radiohead headlined in 2012, you've been telling yourself, "Next year, I'll go."  Let's face it, you're never going to go.  Nonetheless, if you don't have a pass for Week 2, there is still a way for you to get in on the action.  The following list is for those of you who want to experience Coachella (any weekend of the year) without breaking the bank.  Make yourself some Hot & Spicy Ramen and let's get started.

Coachella for Poor People

Option #1: I was bummed that I couldn't attend Coachella until I realized that if I do the following, it's basically the same thing.  Note: This works best if you live in southern California where it is hot as hell.  I want you to get into your automobile, sit down, and turn off the AC.  Or perhaps you don't have a car. In this case, simply lock yourself in your bathroom, shut the windows, block all spaces where air could escape, and run hot water until you've created your own personal hell sauna.  Once you've gathered a glorious sweat, turn on "Summertime Sadness" by Lana Del Rey.  Blast it until your eardrums are on the brink of explosion.  Fist-pump the air.  Resist the burning desire to escape.  Do you want to throw up?  Good.  You have just experienced Coachella.
Price: Your make-up that has now melted off your face.
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Option #2:  Host a "Nochella" party in cramped quarters.  Make a playlist on Spotify featuring every single band on the 2014 lineup.  Even Justin Bieber, who unfortunately graced week 1 with a "special" guest appearance.  Listen to the entire playlist within the span of three days.  Invite so many people over that you have to slide your body against people in order to move from point A to point B.  Do cartwheels and pretend you're on Coachella's iconic Ferris wheel.  For extra oomph, watch the YouTube videos from Week 1 while wearing your favorite whimsical hat paired with a crochet bikini and "stylish" overalls.  Drink.  Twerk.  Not optional:  Flower headpieces for you and all your friends.
Price:  Make your own headpieces and this exciting Coachella experience is fo' FREE.

Option #3":  If you didn't hear, Coachella's Week 1 included a dancing Leonardo Dicaprio and a passive-aggressive dust storm.  To reenact this experience for less than $600, make your own dust bowl and roll around in it while your friend aggressively fans you.  Marvel at the small dry particles that have inhabited your crack, iPhone, and bronchial tubes.  When you get home, ask your dorky dad to dance.
Price:  Totes free.

Option #4: It's time to get wet and accessorize your pool, boys and girls.  You juiced for 40 days for this moment!  Don't have a pool?  Just get high enough that your tub looks like the same thing!  Got your onesie on?  It's time to #coaCHILLa.  Pretend it's 90 degrees outside and swim towards the nearest donut floatie.  For the most realistic Coachella experience, you'll need: sunglasses that are trying just a little too hard, a dozen donut floaties, a few dinosaur rafts, and your drug of choice.
Price:  Well, drugs are expensive, but think about all the Instagram shots you're going to post!  So many likes!  Everybody wants to be you!  Worth it. Until Monday.

Option #5:  Ask a booger-picking child (so, any child) to cough into your mouth hole.  Two to three days later, you will experience bloodshot eyes, a fever, and an upset stomach guaranteed to make you feel like you're about to pop out an alien.  Boom, you've got Coachellafluenza.  You're bed-ridden and want to die.  Congratulations, you have just experienced Coachella!
Price:  Depends on whether you buy brand or generic Dayquil.  What would Vanessa Hudgens do?
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Unfortunately, Coachella is becoming less about the music and more about the "scene" and being seen.  I'm talking to you, fashion bloggers.  Therefore, please don't be afraid to flood your Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook accounts with your budget-friendly adventure.  You're just returning the favor.  I'm sure your loyal followers won't mind.

Thursday, April 3, 2014


I used to follow the crowd and say, "I have no regrets" but I lied.  I have regrets and I'm not afraid to share them.  In no particular order, here are some of my unfortunate life decisions.
  • I regret wearing a fedora everyday in 2012.  Life is way too short to go around looking like Aaron Carter.  I only took it off to shower. The shame.
  • I regret not capturing the cricket that I saw in my room the other day.  The fact that a quick little asshole is still roaming my bedroom terrifies me on a daily basis, particularly when I'm getting into bed.
  • I LOVE you Kevin Spacey.  However, I regret watching House of Cards because it stole a week of my life that I can't get back. 
  • I regret dying my hair red on the fourth of July in my early college years.  That was RIDICULOUS and someone should have stopped me.  I need better friends.
  • I definitely regret eating sardines ever.
  • Yeah, I regret wearing pleather pants from Walmart in the 7th grade.
  • I regret not dating Leonardo DiCaprio.
  • I should regret letting someone touch my foot for $200 but a girl's gotta eat.  
  • I regret instagramming a pineapple the other day.  
  • I regret not coming up with the Cronut.
  • I regret ever forgetting to wear deodorant.
  • I regret posting so many emo lyrics as Facebook statuses.
  • I regret once thinking that life wasn't worth living.  Life is beautiful, even with red hair.


Saturday, March 22, 2014

The Little Prince

"Of course I'll hurt you.  Of course you'll hurt me.  Of course we will hurt each other.  But this is the very condition of existence.  To become spring means accepting the risk of winter.  To become presence means accepting the risk of absence."  -The Little Prince

Love is undeniably powerful.  It's explosive.  It's unique.  It's yours to share with one person and no one else.  What an exceptional feeling it is to love and be loved.  There is so much strength in that.  Some people say that love isn't enough but my inner-hippy disagrees.  If you love someone, that's all that matters.  Just make sure they love you too.  That's the tricky part.  Don't be a fool in love.  The other day, I overheard a superhuman couple being interviewed on The Talk.  [Note: I said I overheard the interview.  I was not WATCHING The Talk.  How embarrassing would that be.]  Anyways, the couple revealed that after three years together, they had never been in a fight.  I'm here to tell you that that is rare and probably bullshit.  At some point, miscommunication will ensue and feelings may be hurt.  That's okay.  Men are from Mars.  What matters is that you're with someone who acknowledges those feelings and makes you feel like you're magic.  I've already learned a lot about myself this year.  I learned that maybe I'm too much of an open book.  I like the fact that I can be vulnerable and honest with people but maybe I should slow my tongue.  Perhaps I should keep more to myself.  And tonight I learned that no matter how much I want to be that person who doesn't drink but still goes out to the bars, I don't feel comfortable or have fun being in that atmosphere anymore.  I wish weekends didn't revolve around an open tab.  I wish I was...with you.  Or at The Groundlings.  Damn, I love that place.



Saturday, March 15, 2014

Sweet Greens

Eating your vegetables is so overrated.  Ain't nobody got time for that.  On this sunny Saturday afternoon, I wanted something healthy, light, and refreshing.  What better than a green smoothie?  With health drinks becoming more and more popular, the amount of recipes is growing fast.  Sometimes it can take forever to find the right one!  Well, good thing we're friends.  The following recipe is tried and trusted by yours truly.

 1 heart of romaine
 2 stalks of celery
1 handful of kale
5 strawberries
1 green apple
1 banana
1 cup of coconut water 
Juice of 1 lemon
1 small bunch of basil

Blend and drink! You're welcome.

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